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Dear Evan, I was curious as to what your real opinion is of online dating. I did meet my girlfriend online, but after a year of painful struggle, meaning hardly any dates despite being educated, employed, and reasonably attractive. Friends of both genders tell that their experiences have been hard in different ways. I assume that the problem exists due to security. Geoff Dear Geoff, Glad to hear you found someone special, and even happier that you spoke up. Average review will be 2 out of 5 stars or something like that. Because people who get married from online dating sites rarely get back online to post happy reviews on websites. They move on with their lives, while everyone else complains about the sites and the awful people on the sites. I just urge people to find some healthier perspective on the whole thing. And yet I still run around as this super dating advocate, because I believe it is the best prospect to find someone special. Mustering the courage to persevere in light of bad experience is. This is why I believe in online dating. But because it creates opportunity where previously there was none. My first love, in 2003, was a Filipino woman that worked in the pharmaceutical industry and lived in a different part of town. But I did meet her on Nerve. My best friend in New York is marrying a man she met on eHarmony. My sister is in love with a man she met on Nerve. I have dozens of clients who are married, engaged and in love with people they met online. And these are just the people that I know well. These people exist offline as well. They just have access to you online. So as I see it, you have two choices: quit online dating and make a supreme effort to go to as many parties, coffee shops and adult education classes as possible OR try to find a way to avoid the worst of the online daters. Yeah, keep praying, people. Your best bet is to keep dusting yourself off, learning from your mistakes, and staying in the game. He told me a story about a friend of his whose internet date had turned out to be morbidly obese as evidence that it was an avenue to be avioded at all costs. When I responded that a There are worse things in life then having dinner with someone who you find unattractive, and b His friend was at fault for not exchanging photos before meeting up he was totally unconvinced, and more then a tad miffed that i should question his judgement. I had a four-year relationship with someone I met online. It should, for example, a guy wants to get your attention. I have had great online experiences but now these dating apps have gone to bot profits. Women need to be more honest and men need to stop being creeps. So you also need a rating system. The issues is a good dating app will need at least 3-5 years to kick in and most developers young rather sell a dream. The other issue is preference. I met a terrific woman online and her family knows we met online and they love me because I represented what I wrote and I was ready. Its not fair to anyone to write you want a LTR when you know you are in a relationship, playing games, testing the waters, looking for Instagram followers, etc. Overall, find a site that you like and just be patient. Who cares like everyone. This is about you not a timid toe dipper. My best advice for Guys? Get a Wing-girl and take her to the hotspots with you. Trust me it works. Find a hot woman and ask her this. Hi I know this may sound crazy but I am having a hard time dating and I was wondering if you would be my wing-gal sometime. Just to see what happens, all on me. Trust me if she has any personal whatsoever she is in. The reader raised specific and common problems that people have with online dating, and you probably have better insight than anyone how to deal with them. If a woman gets a flood of emails on a dating site, how can she weed through them quickly and fairly? Honestly the huge influx of messages is usually only initially, and will decrease dramatically if you use the block button for people that are never going to be your type. I only get maybe three-six messages a day and of those two are usually continued conversations, one might be a new intriguing message and then the other three are instant block people A. You gotta look at it in a freakonomics style! And it seems every man on my dating website has read the darn book, so you guys might be able to relate to this and ladies, listen up, it works! There are a given number of possibilites out there in the world for you. You date online, and you expand your possibilities for meeting a match. But as there are a lots of frogs in the real world, there are a lot of cyber frogs as well. Then of that 3-5%, the rate of success may only be 1. BUT 1 is all you need!! So, to answer teh rate of return for guys: if the standard guy puts out 50 fishing nets for a fish and he gets a couple responses back, that falls in line with our response rate as women! My friends and I have foudn this process works pretty well and quickly! Good luck Happy Matching! The ladies have the advantage here because they get a flood of msgs from guys within minutes of posting their profiles. Just like, during sex, millions of sperm race toward one egg—so too in online dating, hundreds of us men compete for the attention of one woman, so our prospects of ever getting a reply, much less a date, are bleak. Thus I believe that online dating works better for women than for men. As for wealth, I just expect him to have a job, any job, consistently, which I think is reasonable considering I have had a job since I was 14 except when in college full time and still often employed part time then. Secondly online dating is a complete waste of time due mainly to the attitude that women bring to the table. And that attitude is that if they are not immediately overwhelmed by unbridled passion at the first sight of their lover to be, they are not going to bother replying to anything the man says to them. I would say there is less than a 1 in 1000 chance of a woman replying to any given message sent to them, even if they are all immaculately worded and peer reviewed for flaws and shortcomings. I tried online, and yes I get many initial messages- so? I reply to those first 5 ask the other 5 if they can provide a bit more info on their profile. Only 2-4 will respond, and in a few days either the emailing fades off to nothing or they keep on writing and never ask to meet. When I ask, they disappear. Very rarely do I finally meet someone in person. I get many messages. I have been on very few dates. I am very nervous about meeting strangers from the Internet. I am not afraid per se. I just find the whole experience nerve wracking. I also have a very hard time as a female revealing my age on the Internet for personal and career reasons. When I posted my actual age, I got no responses from men in my actual age range. Where else but on the Internet does a grown man ask a woman her age? I post current photos and I look good. This dilemma makes me anxious. I get quizzed on the phone, quizzed on the date, I get very nervous and cannot be myself. If they put up a current photo of themselves and write a profile that is of interest to me , I will reply. It is very strange to declare your age on the Internet. It is confidential information. I never ask a person their age when I first meet them. I can tell by being near them if they seem too immature or too retiring for me. Or what property they own. Most men and women who I meet never guess my age. I look much younger than my years and take great care of myself. The only person I tell is my physician. He has to know. I have found on line dating to be stressful. I started doing it because I was alone for so long I just wanted to go out and hoped I would meet at least a new friend. I am not comfortable revealing my age for all to see. Honestly, you would have thought I just revealed that I lied about my marital status or drug addiction or something much more significant. Men seem obsessed with this. Whereas the women have to make a selection for marital status. My in box is flooded with messages. Then a few phone calls. Then perhaps a date. I have had men promise to call me back that never did. Broken dates at the last minute. Dates where the guy was way too forward. I come home very stressed out. I am so glad for the people that have luck with this. I am not one of them. In their 30s a majority of women are looking to settle down and have a relationship that leads to marriage and family. In their 40s a majority of men are ready to settle down and have a family. Still met no one. Actually, a lot of times I even forget about our six year age gap and it feels more like dating a peer. I have personally found that in general, men are looking down at younger age ranges. Most of my 30-something peers were either looking for something casual, or were looking for women in their 20s. Maybe you might have to do the same thing and increase the upper limit of your age range too. To make matters worse, they all seemed to think a relationship was a women to work AND do all of the cooking and cleaning, i. That group of single men is still out there!! Online dating has not been too fruitful for me since then. Too many babies who: just want to play or want a woman with income and to act as housemaid. One of my last experiences was as WeshWesh described above, hours of talking he was a salesman, so no real surprise and when I finally met him it was not even possible to correlate the person in front of me with the one I had been talking to, so that was all pointless. Just set up a coffee date and find out quickly whether they are for real. Men seem obsessed with this. I mean, certainly not women in their fifties and beyond? Incidentally, I have one question for all the 50 and up ladies here; if confidence and character are the things that really attract you to a man, just how is it you can discern those from a photo and an age, without even reading a profile? Number one rule in my book. We cannot build a foundation on untruths. You are not the most mature age online nor the youngest. This is a red flag. I always feel that a man with personality does not need to chat with questions that is a red flag and would annoy me as well. If you have a type stop! Also, be mysterious, fun, take control and be aggressive! Get what you want! This is your time and you can have anything you want, you just make sure you never deny yourself what you deserve. I would squish you if I could. I think this is also why it can go wrong. You could have bagged yourself a true stunner, there. Maybe your self-confidence is low. Why do people only settle for less, every time? You have to be practical about it. Go for the jugular. Sooner rather than later.. I entered into the experience with an open mind, viewing online dating as an opportunity to meet men outside work and my social circle, and was looking for friendship first, with the possibility of a relationship if we clicked. In fact, I could litterally put any type of description in my profile, and the only thing that seems to make any difference is the picture I post. And, of course, this is just human nature, and we all do it. The only real impact has come from altering my height and income. The higher my income, the more replies I get. You have much more value to women. Obviously the taller you are and the more you make your value increases. You really want to get crazy? Throw in a Masters or PhD…. I present myself very accurately online.. I do not get messages.. This is not an exaggeration either. Changing my profile around does nothing. Most women I see put hardly any effort into theirs. Since I still meet girls out and about I only use online dating as another way to meet people. I was getting so many messages from so many men, reading their profiles, seeing what matched for ME. A lot of the women are looking for something in particular. If you say you pick up attractive girls while you are out, consider this: MOST women can pick up guys all the time. They do not need to go on the Internet to do it. They are looking for something that is right for THEM, not that is right for YOU. It is not a pick up site. It is a dating website. If you read the profiles you will probably see that most of the women are looking for a friend for a relationship. Not a pick up. And the truth is, Tom, MOST women do get MANY messages. If the in person thing is working for you, I would just stick with that. I tried Internet dating I am a woman because I was having no luck in person lately. I had no luck on the Internet either. I am really looking to meet a serious partner. And if you read it and you are not all that interested, then what difference does it make if she replies or not? I prefer the old fashioned way of doing things and you are lucky if you are meeting lots of girls while you are out socializing and so on. If you ever have an interest set up a profile as a woman. One you would email and then just sit back and see what happens and you will understand. Want to really get a feel? Post a picture of a very attractive female and pretend to be her. See how many emails you get in an hour and see how horrible some of them are. Then you will understand this is not about you at all. And while I really want to and at first tried to send a no thank you to every guy that emailed me it was just too much and I found that it prompted an increase of nasty follow ups from men wanting to know why I was rejecting them or why no one liked them or why I was being such a well you put the nasty word in there. Your beauty is your confidence even if you only have 8 toes! Do you define WOMAN! I should make you feel sexy and vice versa, if you are not highly sexual then be honest about it. Plus, expectations are too high going into an online date. But a good date should make you feel the opposite — elated about the potential and possibility! The best way to meet people to date is through friends — BBQs, parties, clubs, social groups. The common bond is a great starting point. What do you have in common with someone else who online dates — you both subscribed to the same service? Though what if, like myself, you have moved to an area far away from family and friends. I do not dance 2 left feet is an understatement so clubs are out. Sans friends there are no party invites. Any bar I have found in the area is filled with married couples or people 20-30 years older than me. Where do I then go to get a jumping off point? Sadly I have hundreds of emails sent with ZERO replies. I am told I am a good looking man and have attractive eyes. Will women get more dates and spend less money? Will most men never get a response let alone a date? Does online dating work?? IE: Women no longer have to leave the house and they can have 10 dates a week. They can put up their blury picture from 5 yrs and 30 lbs ago and get tons of meaningless attention as well as deicde who they interact with and for how long… usually 2 or 3 emails.. I split up with my ex boyfriend who turned out to be too insane and not nice over 3 years ago. After crying myself to sleep for months, I decided to get myself in gear and go out. I got on the Internet. I could not even get a coffee date. So I took myself out. To everywhere I was invited. I usually went by myself. I almost always paid for myself. Sometimes I paid for my friends. I am beautiful, kind and smart. I have never been married. I have a few nice male friends I know from the YMCA I swim almost everyday and am in great shape, all natural, attractive features. I commented earlier about how nervous I am about Internet dating. It has been a real mixed bag for me. But it was the first time in 3 years that a man actually took me out to dinner. Before that I went out with my girlfriends or simply dined alone. It was so stressful after the meal the man practically pounced on me. I was courteous, thanked him and said good night. Yeah, Internet dating is a gold mine for women. Too many creeps on these sites ruin it for the good ones. Nothing needy, nothing rushed, but that is surely my goal at any rate. I seem to be what a lot of women are looking for, at least as stated in their profiles. And… nothing, most of the time. Why is this so stupidly hard?? Criteria — body type is slender, athletic or average. All other criteria open. Of the remaining 12% — start weeding out the non-compatible things. Weed out the plastic queens — the black eyebrows and unnaturally blonde hair, usually accompanied by very tan real, UV, or spray-on skin, fake nails, etc…see also attention whores and money hungry above. It comes to them. Good attractive physically fit women, at least in the upper tier of attractiveness are more often than not sitting at home alone on date nights. The men that do have the courage to ask them out tend to be narcissts and jerks and so they end up in unhealthy relationships, and alone. I suggest this to men, look on women that are not 8s and 10s and you will have a better shot. And only email women that you would actually approach in person. I have met a number of very desirable women. Granted, none of these situations has worked out and I would concede that I think that each of these attractive and successful women have unrealistic expectations. But my anecdotal experience is that they are out there, even if the ones with their heads screwed halfway normal are few and far between. But, as the guy who writes this blog says, it only takes one. Yet I married a man who had children from a previous marriage, and a previous relationship. And that was not what split us up, either. For all you childless people counting out dating a parent, you are doing yourself a tremendous disservice. I know I did. I myself do not like to date men who have no children—they often have childish, selfish attitudes and are emotionally stunted and irresponsible—but I make exceptions for those that may be good. You should do likewise, if you really want to find a relationship. I know I did. I have two biological children one now deceased. Did they come with some headaches? Same question to women, as quite a few rule out single dads. I do not have children, but I am going to see a single parent this weekend, she came across as very intelligent, unpretentious and fairly serious about relationships. If you are in your mid to late 30s and beyond I think it is unreasonable to disregard all the people that have children. However, the reason people do is that they are not ready for the responsibility of a family, they do not want an insta family. If this is the case then they should not seek out single parents, it is unfair for them to do so. If you are single and childness it is a total different lifestyle to date a single parent. I can pick up and fly to LA or another country at the drop of a hat, a parent could not do that. I have a lot more free time than a parent does to date as well. I understand the preference. Attractive pictures, though, including boob job. It is a must for me to feel chemistry! Therefore I am hot. Her income info is blank, but she does mention being self-employed. I have a disability that keeps me from working full-time. That makes dating a pain online and off. Online I look for lower income guys—deliberately. It would be nice if I could find someone who lived within a 50 mile radius too with the price of gas going up. Here are just a few of my reservations: 1. Essentially, I do not see myself using a supermarket approach to address an issue of a pretty existential nature. I think the below quote from one of the posters is a good illustration of what I mean by supermarket approach: „As for women weeding through the hundreds of ads quickly, let’s be honest, go for the ones that are aesthetically pleasing to YOUR eye, keep a list of possible secondary ones and then discard the others. Then, there is an issue of how you perceive your, so called, private sphere. I do not see myself placing a photo not to mention a photo showing the cleavage and a lot of personal info on a public website where it can be viewed by basically everyone. I guess people differ very much in what they perceive as a part of their private sphere as opposed to public sphere. I would be afraid that men who set themselves an OBJECTIVE TO FIND A GIRLFRIEND would want such a relationship to progress too quickly than what I would find comfortable. I would NOT set myself an OBJECTIVE TO FIND A BOYFRIEND. Well, I do not believe that a soulmate might drop out of the sky, but I do believe that sometimes we just come to a realization that this someone who is around makes so much difference that you just cannot imagine the world without them. Wanting to have a love life without making an effort to achieve it is empty. Wanting to date online and worrying about anonymity is similar. No shame in that. Online dating is the most obvious spot to meet likeminded single people. But hey, go try the gym and let me know how it goes. I thank you, Cinnamon, for providing a valuable service to all the people out there who think like you do. Warmest wishes — with love. They sell people and the few success stories they have, but no one really knows the statistical outcomes of meeting online. The divorce rate in the US is still very high, even higher for second marriages. My findings are most people online are not living authentic lives and are not attractive to me. I want to meet the healthy people who are living good quality lives, and that success, for me personally, only happens in person. Being in communities where people know people helps reduce the amount of sleuthing I have to do. I have found the best quality of people off-line. To me, doing the online thing takes too long to filter out who the liars are because some people have had lifelong experience at it and can be quite good. Meeting the person in person usually seals the deal or ends it. I am often quite surprised at how carelessly, haphazardly, and cluelessly some people go about this very important process. With the proliferation of spammers, married people, general scum online, I have had much better success online dating in the past than recently. I no bother with online dating sites, I am looking for authentic folks who live the lives they say they do, not those who are online due to boredom, loneliness, lack of social skills, for whom this is merely a game, etc. After much consideration as to whether I should try online dating I have decided not too. Being apart of a good community I enjoy the people around me, and they continue to bring the best out of me. True love wont drop out of the sky for me. I am 32 self employed designer who pours herself too much into her work. The decision I have made is to make more time for people. To remain open, relaxed and cracking jokes in my usual wacky way without trying to impress or be something I am not. I dont want you to be perfect, no one is. If I have to search online for you I fear I would miss you in the confusion of the crowd! Basically Im with you all on this and drinks are on me if you come to my local! But really annoys me is when girls I ask out from dating sites put Online dating down yet they are there to chat to. I use Online Dating as a gateway to meeting someone and arranging to meet up. I can tell you I have had three girlfriends. All from Plenty Of Fish. But why are they on there then? I am a shy man who just wants to be given a chance and I have met loads of wrong people online. But as I mentioned earlier I have met girls from the net so that is the main reason I keep using Online Dating sites. They are capable enough to meet someone for real in a club or something. I couldn't be any happier. You were honest with me even when I didn't like it. You put a mirror to my face... I enjoyed my dates and I learned to trust my feelings and instincts more. He is kind and caring, with wonderful values. He makes me feel like the most special woman in the world. I never have to wonder how he feels about me, I KNOW.

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